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Honeymoon (7): London

Honeymoons tend to be very private, but we ended ours with a huge group of people – two of our very favourite Japanese people, along with half of their company workers!

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On the London Eye with Kyoko and Adachi

Kyoko and Adachi are like second family to me, having let me stay in their house rent free for a year when I lived in the northern Japanese city of Yamagata back in my twenties. They are jazz musicians who love a good party, and frequently opened their doors to the various waifs and strays I brought home (i.e. most of the foreigners who lived in Yamagata) – their house became known as the ‘Adachi Hospital for Homesick Foreigners’ as there was always a cold beer and warm welcome for anyone who visited. (You can read about the crazy way I met them in this post). They also looked after us in the first couple of weeks of our sabbatical in Japan last year.

Adachi travelled the world in his youth and lived in Notting Hill way before it was hip, and Kyoko has been heavily inspired by western music as a Jazz singer, but they had never been to England together. I always promised that of course I would look after them if they ever came to visit, so when they decided to take their team to Europe to celebrate a pivotal birthday for their company, I pursuaded them to give up their idea of going to Italy and come to England instead. But that was before we got engaged. The irony was, they then booked their flights, and it ended up being a week after our wedding (which we would have loved them to come to), and WE were in Italy for our honeymoon! So we decided to spent the last couple of days of our holiday in a lovely London hotel exploring with them instead, and it was such fun.

Charlotte Street Hotel, London

Charlotte Street Hotel

We booked ourselves into the gorgeous Charlotte Street Hotel in Soho. It is really expensive so we had just taken a simple room, but when we got their they said that as a honeymoon gift they had upgraded us to their loft suite – an apartment overlooking London charged out at £1,000 a night! It was so fabulous we didn’t want to leave, but headed out onto the streets of London to see the sights with our visiting friends.

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The living room of our loft apartment (complete with our own private lift!)

We have both been to London countless times, but usually to see friends or for work – rarely as a tourist. It was so much fun to see London through the eyes of our friends – the London Eye, live music on the banks of the Thames, the British Museum, Big Ben, afternoon tea in a posh hotel, sunday lunch in an old English pub etc. We also surprised them with three of our English friends who had stayed at their house over the years turning up for lunch and dinner!

Here are a few happy snapshots:

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This time with old friends was actually the perfect way to end our honeymoon and start the rest of our married lives. Thank you so much to our friends and families who contributed to our honeymoon and make it so special.

You can read my other honeymoon posts here: (1) Florence / (2) Castel Monastero / (3) Winetasting in Tuscany / (4) Borgo Santo Pietro / (5) Pasta masterclass / (6) Pisa and home

Honeymoon (6): Pisa and home

As our honeymoon drew to a close we reflected on the perfect week of Italian food, wine and hospitality, long walks and longer chats, and a lifetime of adventures ahead of us. It was wonderful to have that time to also reflect on our brilliant wedding and think about how grateful we are for the family and friends who made it so special. (All the wedding details coming very soon!)

Pisa

Before we left Italy we had one last stop. Our flight left from Pisa, so we couldn’t not see the Leaning Tower. Excuse the cheesy touristy posed picture – it couldn’t be helped!

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It really is quite an extraordinary sight, and we found it sat alongside a beautiful church with grassy grounds covered in lazy picnickers soaking up the sun. There was nothing for it but to get a delicious Italian ice cream and join them…

You can read my other honeymoon posts here: (1) Florence / (2) Castel Monastero / (3) Winetasting in Tuscany / (4) Borgo Santo Pietro / (5) Pasta masterclass / (6) Pisa and home

Honeymoon (5): Pasta masterclass!

Pasta masterclass

And the honeymoon story continues… While at Borgo Santo Pietro we couldn’t help but indulge ourselves in a private pasta cookery class with the hotel’s Executive Chef. It was amaaaaazing. I just felt so happy in that kitchen, and one of the things that we made (the fresh tortellini stuffed with caramelised pear on a tarragon pesto) was possibly the best thing I have ever tasted in my life. Must buy a pasta machine…

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Heaven on a plate – fresh tortellini stuffed with caramelised pear on a tarragon pesto

You can read my other honeymoon posts here: (1) Florence / (2) Castel Monastero / (3) Winetasting in Tuscany / (4) Borgo Santo Pietro / (5) Pasta masterclass / (6) Pisa and home

Life According To Mr.K – Love to Change (4)

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“Things do not change; we change” – Henry David Thoreau

How times change! Do you ever find yourself sitting there asking “How did I end up here? When did this become my life? Where have these extra inches around the waist come from? How do you use this thing??”

Yeah, me too! Isn’t it also funny that these slightly depressing realisations are usually then followed by little to no action? Change before you have to!

Why is it we normally have to wait for a traumatic event or even a disaster to happen before we make significant changes? This is certainly true of our history and it is certainly the way society and governments often work. But what if we were proactive and made changes, rather than reactive, and let changes happen to us?

Of course we all get older, our bodies change, as do our plans, priorities and maybe most importantly of all our responsibilities. But does this mean we can’t be the person we want to be? Or live in the kind of world we want to be part of?

I have spent the last two decades cruising around in second gear. Doing just enough. I have found myself at times poles apart from where I dreamt I might once be. I have now been inspired to change. I have been inspired to live the fullest life I can.  And I am thrilled to be a part of Do What You Love helping other people to do the same.

“Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it is the only thing that ever has.” – Margaret Mead

All I know is that I want to be the best person I can be. I want to be the person my parents raised. I want to be the husband my wife dreamt about and one day hopefully be a father that my children are proud of and inspired by. I want to live the life I used to dream of, and at last I feel like I am on my way. Only I can make it happen, and I have finally realised that.

How about you? Do you tend to complain about things? This week, when you feel like complaining about something, why not try changing something about the way you approach it? You must be the change you wish to see in the world!

Until next time,

Mr K

Global Talent Search winner to get Mini Collection with Robert Kaufman Fabrics!

Drum roll please… The winner of the Global Talent Search will not only be represented by Lilla Rogers Studio, but will win a Mini Collection license with Robert Kaufman Fabrics (and a host of other prizes!)

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The Mini Collection with Robert Kaufman Fabrics will feature 2-4 designs with 2 colorways per design. The winner will collaborate with a Senior Stylist assigned by the Robert Kaufman Studio, who will personally guide them through all processes involved to produce and market their work on fabric. The details of the license, including royalties, will be negotiated by Lilla Rogers Studio on behalf of the winner.

Registration for the Global Talent Search closes TOMORROW! If you have not yet registered, what are you waiting for? This is an incredible opportunity and someone has to win – it might just be YOU! Find out more and register here (PLEASE NOTE 2013’S GLOBAL TALENT SEARCH IS OVER. FOR INFORMATION ABOUT THE WINNER SEE HERE.) 

Global Talent Search winner to get license with Paperchase!

We are bursting with excitement to reveal unveil another fantastic prize for the winner of the Global Talent Search (registration closes this Wednesday June 26)… (PLEASE NOTE 2013’S GLOBAL TALENT SEARCH IS NOW OVER.) 

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The talented winner will win a license for a journal cover with gorgeous stationery chain Paperchase!! ( LOVE this shop). The details of the license, including royalties, will be negotiated by Lilla Rogers Studio on behalf of the winner.

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Image via Paperchase website

Find out more about Paperchase on their website here.

How amazing? If you haven’t yet thrown your hat into the ring for the Global Talent Search, why not? Someone has to win and it might just be you! Register here by June 26 to be in with a chance of winning this career-changing prize! (PLEASE NOTE THE WINNER HAS NOW BEEN ANNOUNCED. SEE HERE FOR DETAILS).

Life According To Mr. K – Love to Change (3)

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In my last column I talked about the six month sabbatical Beth and I took last year. The change of location brought an obvious change in scenery, environment, food, culture, language, tempo and lifestyle. My physical surroundings had changed massively.

We had traded our considerably large and very comfortable 3 storey house for a postage stamp of a flat, – 12 square metres to be exact. We prepared food on top of the fridge and cooked on a single ring hob. The toilet design had been taken straight from a plane, it was three steps from the kitchen and the dining table was literally a foot from the bed. Compact to say the least (or cosy if you ask Beth).

We had no car, no phone and no TV. I had no idea how significant this was to become. These changes in circumstance prompted us to go out all the time. By going out I don’t mean going to the pub. I mean going outside and exploring. We cycled and walked everywhere. We spent time in coffee shops, by the river, at temples and shrines, in parks and public gardens. Okay and the odd bar!

I was reading, writing and drawing nearly every day. I felt alive. More importantly I felt that I was living every day.

There is no doubting that Kyoto is a magical place. It is so different it would capture anyone’s imagination for a while.

But I truly believe the most significant change for me was not the change in scenery, culture, people, language or food.

The most significant change was a shift to having less, doing less, rushing less. Less stuff, less technology and less noise led to more time, more laughs and certainly more adventures.

Maybe less is more! I never really appreciated this saying before my trip but it certainly do now. When you think about it in this way, it is actually possible to make small changes anytime, even starting right now. Small changes can have big results.

“True life is lived when tiny changes occur” – Leo Tolstoy

I remember sitting on the shinkansen (bullet train) and noticing that every single person was transfixed by their phone or tablet. I guess this is pretty much true of any commute, in nearly every industrialised society. And I used to be part of that. But not this time.

I spent the next couple of hours gazing out of the window, watching mountains and paddy fields pass by. My mind was free to wander aimlessly. I felt so relaxed, enjoying the details in the moment. Maybe if we try to be a little less obsessed with what is ahead, we can let ourselves enjoy the journey, and the view, a little more.

“True change takes place in the imagination” – Thomas Moore

I have made so many big changes recently, from changing career, to learning a brand new skill (Japanese) to getting married and now moving house.

I wonder why, after a decade of inactivity/ doing the same thing, there have suddenly been a flurry of changes? Is it my age? Is it the influence of my wife and the ethos of Do What You Love? Or is it that I changed one thing and that went well, so I had more confidence to change another, and another? Once I opened the floodgates I realised that there wasn’t that much to be fearful of, and a whole lot to be excited about. I suspect it is a combination of all the above.

How about you? What small steps could you take right now, to simplify your life and make changes today that will get you closer to feeling how you want to feel?

Until next time…

Mr K

Do What You Love Interview – Iain Moncrieff (with gorgeous giveaway!)

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Today’s interview provides a perfect example that ‘doing what you love’ doesn’t just happen. You have to be willing to make changes in your life and have the conviction to chase and fulfil your dreams, even if things don’t go right first time.

Brothers Iain and Gray Moncrieff have been on a rollercoaster these past few years with major highs and lows, but they have not let life’s obstacles and disappointments stand in their way.

Former professional musicians, they scored a top record deal with Sony and had a dream of superstardom, but the rug was pulled out from under them just as they were on the brink of major fame. Whereas many people would have just given up at that point, Gary and Iain crafted a new dream, which is now starting to flourish after hours of blood, sweat and tears.

The brothers now run a hand crafted clock business (EG Clocks) which they absolutely love. They make clocks from various hardwoods and slate which allows them to be creative and artistic in their job, as well as bringing people pleasure through their beautiful products.

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1. How are you leading a life ‘doing what you love’?

We work together very close to home doing something that we really enjoy doing. It’s amazing and we love it!

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Burr Mantle clock

2. What did you do before this?

We both dreamed of being rock stars when we were young and our first full time job was when we were offered a record deal with a major label just after we started university… so I suppose really we started our working lives doing what we love.

We instantly left our courses and signed the deal. We released an album and singles in England and Japan and toured for four years. We recorded at some of the best studios in the world and played massive gigs to thousands of people (and small gigs to about 4 people!) It was an amazing time in both our lives, but one day it all disappeared. The day it fell through and we had to get “normal jobs” was a very difficult one to accept.

At the time we were trying to secure another deal and so we ended up in jobs we didn’t enjoy as we had to start earning money quickly. It’s so true that you can fall into doing a job that you never had any intention of doing, or a job based on choices you made when you were young and encouraged perhaps to become an accountant just because you were quite good at maths.

Sometimes you have to stop and ask yourself if this is the life you chose, or the life that chose you. This is what happened to us after a few years of working at these jobs that we “just fell into”. Personally (Iain) I have worked as; a rock star (Ha ha!!), in sales, at an alcohol distributor, as a window fitter and as a self employed plasterer and carpenter…. it’s been a mixed bag!

3. What was your a-ha moment that pushed you to change things and realise your passion?

I realised that after the band, my CV was just a list of things that I wouldn’t really associate myself with. Although I enjoyed running my own business, I had a dream of having a workshop, working with wood, and also songwriting.  One day my brother and I just started talking about it and it turned out that we both really wanted to make it happen. We decided that there was nothing stopping us from doing it… apart from us. That was the day it started and we’ve never looked back.

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Sapele Dove-tail Inlay clock

4. How did you make it happen?

We had a few challenges to overcome so we wrote a list of the things we could think of that were preventing us from getting started. We just started at number one and worked our way through the list until they were all gone. There are always lots of reasons why not to do something… so we thought the best thing to do was just get rid of each of them.

5. What has been your biggest challenge along the way and how did you overcome it?

The biggest challenge for us initially was the weather! As we work with wood and slate there is a lot of dust involved and so we couldn’t do anything in our houses. We had to make the initial designs in my back garden through the winter months. We would set everything up only to have to dismantle it all and bring it back inside when it started raining, which stopped production over and over again!

This was overcome when we finally managed to set up our workshop ,which was a huge challenge in itself as it had no electricity and the only supply was 75 metres away. Installing armoured cable in rocky ground with one pick axe and a small shovel between us wasn’t something we enjoyed… but now when it starts raining and we’re in the workshop I think back to those days and smile!

I always think that the biggest challenge really is taking the risks that you have to take every day when you work for yourself and somehow installing an unwavering confidence in yourself and what you do.

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6. What is the best advice you have received?

One New Year’s Eve my wife, Lisa, made me write a list of what I really want from life, and to send it out to into the universe as she firmly believes that ‘what you think about, you bring about’.

I have never been the type to believe in anything like that… but amazingly a lot of the things I wrote that night have happened. Maybe it subconsciously focused my mind. As I started writing I realised that it was actually really difficult to selfishly ask for exactly what YOU want. It was a really good thing to do though and it is especially good if you are one of those people who don’t think about themselves much.

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More examples of their beautiful hand crafted clocks

7. What kept you awake at night before you made these changes? How about now?

Luckily I am not really a worrier. I always think your rest time is much better spent sleeping as it gives you more energy to tackle any challenges the next day. I know the question isn’t really meant that literally but even when you do what you love it can still sometimes be stressful and I think it’s very important to be able to switch off and take a break.

8. Why do you think change is important?

Without changing you can easily become stagnant. If everything stays the same, where once everything was exciting it will be boring and as a direct result you become boring. The more you change… the more you stay the same.

I feel as excited about things now as I did when I was very young and I think that it’s the changes I’ve made to my life that are responsible. I used to complain about my job all the time and do nothing about it. It definitely makes you a much more interesting person when you’re very positive about things moving forward rather than complaining and doing nothing about it. It’s actually quite easy to change, but it’s also very easy to talk yourself out of change. I’ve learnt that you just have to do it!

9. What is the biggest noticeable difference in your life since choosing this new path?

The most important thing for me has been that it feels like there are no limits anymore. I now think of new ideas with a view that they will work and that they are achievable.

10. Finally, what is key to making a big change in your life?

I think the key is not to give up. A lot of the things we needed to set up our workshop were too expensive for us to buy, so we had to learn to build what we needed ourselves. Ironically this made us learn new skills which have been incredibly useful.

My brother taught himself how to build a website and to use design programmes to get the best from our pictures. We started with a budget of zero, and at times I still wonder how we have managed to achieve what we have now. It just seems impossible but I’ve never once thought that along the way… so I suppose that everything is actually much more achievable than you might think it will be. Just never give up.

If you would like to find out more about Iain’s business you can visit his website or Facebook page. I have a feeling one of their beautiful clocks may be finding a home at DWYL HQ very soon!

GIVEAWAY!

THE PRIZE: Iain and Gray are giving away one of their beautiful and unique hand-crafted clocks to a very lucky reader.

TO ENTER: To enter, please check out the clock gallery on their website here, and come back to leave a comment under this post saying which of their clocks you most like and why. Please be sure to include your full name and country of residence in your comment.

DEADLINE: The deadline is Tuesday June 25th 20:00hrs GMT. Any comments left after this time will not be considered. THIS GIVEAWAY IS NOW CLOSED. THANK YOU TO EVERYONE WHO ENTERED!  The winner was RACHEL LITTLEWOOD! Congratulations Rachel. We will be in touch to arrange for your clock to be delivered! We hope you love having it in your home.

SMALL PRINT: There will be one winner who will be chosen from the entries after the deadline, and announced on this blog shortly afterward. The competition is open to anyone over 18 anywhere in the world (shipping will be covered). There is no cash alternative. Our decision on the winner is final and no correspondence will be entered into.

Global Talent Search to get home & garden product license with Studio M!

We are so excited to unveil yet another fabulous prize for the winner of the Global Talent Search (registration closes June 26, 2013)… (PLEASE NOTE 2013’S GLOBAL TALENT SEARCH IS NOW OVER)

Prize for Global Talent Search

The talented winner will create a decorative garden product with Studio M, the new artful home and garden division of Magnet Works, Ltd.! The Director of Product Development will personally work with the winner throughout the development process to give them a better understanding of how a product line is conceptualized, developed, and marketed in the Specialty Gift Industry. The details of the license, including royalties, will be negotiated by Lilla Rogers Studio on behalf of the winner.

Find out more about Studio M on their website or connect on Facebook, Instagram, or Pinterest.

How cool? If you haven’t yet thrown your hat into the ring for the Global Talent Search, why not? Someone has to win and it might just be you! Register here by June 26 to be in with a chance of winning this career-changing prize! (PLEASE NOTE THE WINNER HAS BEEN ANNOUNCED. SEE HERE FOR DETAILS.)