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By the book…

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This is a post by Senior Editor, Rachel Kempton

Winter is on its way and what better excuse to curl up by the fire and snuggle up with a good book – or three! This month I’ve been reading (and loving)…

In the company of women

In The Company of Women: Inspiration and advice from over 100 Makers, Artists, and entrepreneurs by Grace Bonney

Say the word entrepreneur and who comes to mind? Bill Gates? Richard Branson? Mark Zuckerberg?

Chances are we’ll picture a white, straight, go-getting male, but Grace Bonney, founder of the popular design blog Design*Sponge is on a mission to change that.

In her book, In the Company of Women: Inspiration and Advice from over 100 Makers, Artists, and Entrepreneurs, Bonney profiles over 100 influential women from all ages, races, backgrounds, and industries to show how women across the globe are embracing the entrepreneurial spirit and starting creative businesses.

This book is packed full of practical, inspirational advice for those looking to forge their own paths. The interviews detail the keys to success and highlight the importance of everyday rituals, and dispense advice for the next generation of women entrepreneurs and makers.

This book just goes to show that no one woman was handed a perfect business and a perfect life. It’s all about how they’ve found the balance in life and created a support system that works for them. And we love the gorgeous original photographs of them all in their work spaces.

In The Company of Women: Inspiration and advice from over 100 Makers, Artists, and entrepreneurs by Grace Bonney is out now from Artisan.

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You Are A Badass by Jen Sincero

If you’ve ever taken stock of your life and realised that you aren’t living the life that you want, then this is the book for you.

In this refreshingly entertaining how-to guide, #1 New York Times Bestselling Author and world-travelling success coach, Jen Sincero, serves up hilariously inspiring stories, savvy advice, easy exercises, through bite-size chapters like: Your Brain is Your Bitch; Fear is for Suckers; and My Subconscious Made Me Do It.

You Are a Badass will take you on a wild joy ride to your own transformation and helps you create the money, relationships, careers and general all around awesomeness you so desire. And, if you’re ready to make some serious changes, it will help you:

  • Identify and change the self-sabotaging beliefs and behaviors that stop you from getting what you want
  • blast past your fears so you can take big exciting risks
  • figure out how to make some damn money already
  • learn to love yourself and others
  • set big goals and reach them

These are a few lines (amidst many) that really stood out for me…

  • Everyone screws up and you’re not special for doing it.
  • You don’t have to hit rock bottom to make change. You can just decide.
  • If you believe it, it is your thoughts and beliefs dictate reality, so if you don’t like your reality, change these.
  • Respect yourself instead of catering to your need to be liked. Never apologise for being you. Own your ugly.
  • Your friends really do have a major impact on your future, so ditch the Negative Nancys.
  • The only failure is quitting. Everything else is just gathering information.
  • Fear lives in the future. It hasn’t happened yet so why create the drama?
  • Procrastination is the easiest form of self-sabotage – you’ll either find a way or an excuse.

Basically this book shows you how to create a life you totally love, and create it NOW. And by the end, you’ll understand why you are how you are, how to love what you can’t change, how to change what you don’t love, and how to use The Force to kick some serious ass.

You Are A Badass by Jen Sincero is out now from Running Press.

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Messy: How to Be Creative and Resilient in a Tidy-Minded World by Tim Harford

When we get busy, life can sometimes feel like a battle to stave off chaos. The desk overflowing with an ever-mounting pile of paperwork. The kids’ room strewn with clothes and toys. And our minds overwhelmed with to-do lists and negative chitter chatter. If we could only get everything in order, we think life would be so much better.

Tim Harford, Financial Times’ star economist, has a different theory: that sometimes mess is far better than precision and order. Mess, by his definition, can range from actual untidiness—which can function better than precise filing systems—to disruption, distraction, unexpected collaboration, and context-switching. All of that, Harford, says, can prove extremely fruitful in all areas of our life.

His book explores many situations where accepting messiness has led to greater creativity and productivity, from Brian Eno’s randomly picked Oblique Strategies cards, which inspired David Bowie’s Berlin albums, to the time when Martin Luther King was forced to abandon his practice of preparing his public performances and improvise, resulting in his I Have a Dream speech. It makes a compelling case that there are a lot of areas where it pays to open up to the idea that mess is to be embraced rather than fought against.

‘Messy: How to be Creative and Resilient in a Tidy-Minded World’ by Tim Harford is out now from Little, Brown.

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What are you reading this month? We’d love to know!

Wednesday Wellbeing

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“Doing the best at this moment puts you in the best place for the next moment.” ~ Oprah Winfrey

Happy Wednesday!

Friday is fast approaching but if you’re feeling the midweek blues you’re in the right place to be inspired!

Today the Do What You Love team is sharing what they’re up to and what is motivating them at the moment. We hope their thoughts get you thinking about what lights you up and how you can get more of this into your life…

Rachel Kempton is making time to create

I’ve been meaning to brush up on my sewing skills for years but since becoming a mum it’s a creative dream that’s fallen to the wayside… until recently! Through Hagglers Corner, a creative community of makers and doers, I was introduced to Running With Scissors, a business which runs small craft workshops, and it has inspired me to make time to make. It’s been over 10 years since I last used a sewing machine so I’ve carved out some ‘me-time’ and booked myself onto a beginner’s sewing course. Being a beginner can be scary so it’s good to know that I’ll be amongst others who are also there learn the basics. I hope that my new-found knowledge and skills will give me the confidence to experiment with interesting tools and techniques and that (one day!) I’ll be making all sorts of gorgeous gifts for my family and friends and giving my home a truly handmade feel.

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My thought of the week: Maybe you feel stuck. Or bored. Or frustrated. Or maybe you quite like the life you live, it’s just that you suspect there’s something more. Some greater sense of meaning or excitement. New connections. New adventures. New possibilities. Well possibilities are always within reach. You may not be able to quit your job or develop new skills by osmosis, but every day brings new opportunities, dictated by the choices you make. Sometimes even the smallest shift in thinking or doing can create the biggest opportunity and set the stage for positive life changes. Nourish your mind, body and soul today by making choices that make you feel most alive and give your creative dreams a boost by living them. How can you give yourself time and space to create today? Do you have any passion projects right now? What creative dream are you going to start working on? 

Louise Gale is feeling energised by nature

As soon as I wake up (and before logging onto my computer!), I head down to the beach for my morning walk. This is such a great way to start the day as I take time to appreciate a quiet moment in nature and sink my feet into the sand to soak up the earth’s healing electrons. This time of year is perfect as it is quiet and the sun is rising over the sea which sends beautiful reflections across the water. Spending time in the great outdoors is so good for us all, whether it’s a walk on the beach or through a local park on the way to work. Taking time to do this first thing in the morning sets me up for the busy day ahead, and leaves me feeling inspired, motivated and positive.

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Louise’s thought of the week: Leading naturalist and author of the nature Principle, Richard Louv, is right when he says: “We can be happier, healthier and smarter if we weave more nature into our lives.” You can read more about why nature does good things in this article.

How can you strengthen your connection with nature today?

Fiona Duffy explains why her work always feels like ‘me-time’

I recently joined the team at Do What You Love to help Beth with the launch of her book Freedom Seeker, to be released in April 2017. I’m lucky that more often than not I feel very energised in the work I do. On reflection I realise that is because I always try to set myself realistic and personal goals that are super-aligned to the work projects I’m a part of. Doing this means that ‘work’ actually feels like ‘me-time’ as I can clearly see how my job is enriching my life on a daily basis.

For example, whilst the team here supports Beth with her book launch, I plan to use the stories and exercises within the book (lucky me, I get a sneak peek!) to identify exactly what it is that makes me feel free, and introduce more of it to my working day, and life.

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Fiona’s thought of the week: I’ve found that choosing fun and uplifting locations to work from, like cafés and co-working spaces, and jazzing up my home office to make it an inspiring place to hang out, makes me feel creative, free and ready to take on the day.

What changes – small or big – could you make to enhance your workspace today?

We’d love to hear what is inspiring and motivating you this week so please do share your thoughts in the comments below. 

12 tips for escaping the career you don’t want into the one you do

Here are a a dozen insights that have helped me over the years stick to work I want to be doing (almost) everyday. Let us know what else guides you.

1. Think in 3 Horizons — but only execute on 1st and 3rd.

Horizon 1: What are you doing now / this week / month to set you on the path you want to go on? Act. Do. Make something happen.

Horizon 2: What’s going to happen between now and the long-term? You don’t know. Things change. A lot. So, don’t waste time planning too much.

Horizon 3: Where do you want to be in 5 years? What values will underpin this lifestyle? Who will you be working with? Always keep this in mind.

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2. Write a letter to yourself from the future

It’s 2019. Write a letter to yourself saying what you’ve achieved over the last 5 years and how you’ve done it. This may sound stupid but it’s a great way to visualize where you want to go and what really matters. Exchange letters with a friend or mentor if it seems weird doing it by yourself.

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Simplify everything. This isn’t just about great UX. It can be about a lot of your life. This year I ‘pruned’ 15% of my life — clothes, kitchen cabinet tins, playlists, books, social network ‘friends’. This stuff works.

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4. Master the most important venn diagram in the world

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5. Write an Escape List and pin it on your wall (fridge. facebook. bathroom)

Make yourself accountable to a friend to do this.

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6. Don’t let being comfortable kill your ambition, because it will.

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7. Bin the CV. Build a Story.

I might be wrong but I think CVs won’t be around forever. What matters when I meet someone is whether they’re doing something they really want to be doing and have gone out and built the skills and experience necessary to do that thing better. There are SO many good web tools for sharing your story, there’s no excuse.

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8. Do one thing exceptionally well rather than everything just well.

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9. Always try and escape the ‘vicious circle of badness’ @davecorn

These are excuses. Try not to use them.

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10. Use stimulants! Coffee for productivity. Beer for creativity. Water for life.

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11. Read books that challenge you as well as blogs that distract you!

We agree with Zuck on this one. Sometimes you need to go deep to go far. That’s why we started Rebel Book Club.

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12. Above everything — surround yourself with people who are doing work they love.

Positive mindsets equal productive, happy lives. Simples.

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If ever the world needed your brave heart, it is now

Half of America and much of the world is grieving today, devastated about the future they had hoped for, which will no longer be. Our collective trajectory has shifted, but that doesn’t mean we are powerless to shape our own futures.

A couple of weeks ago I gave a talk in New York City on ‘How to talk to anyone’. It was a lesson in speaking from your brave heart, and now, more than ever, I want you to hear this. Now, more than ever, we need to be speaking from our brave hearts, and recognising the brave hearts in others. And teaching our children to speak from their brave little hearts too.

I hope this talk lifts you in these uncertain times. If you know anyone else who needs to hear this, please feel free to share it on social media using this link: https://bit.ly/2eW4wMc

Beth

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Do What You Love interview – Nic Bottomley

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Today we bring you an inspiring interview with Nic Bottomley – co-owner of Mr B’s Emporium of Reading Delights, an independent bookshop based in Bath that has twice been named UK Independent Bookshop of the Year. In a past life Nic was a capital markets lawyer but in a bid to do what he loves he gave it up to live and work in the world of books. Fast forward 11 years and Nic has never been happier as he continues to play his part in proving how precious well-stocked bookshops, run by enthusiastic and knowledgeable staff, are to our cultural life.

We caught up with Nic to find out what drove him to make such a major career change all those years ago and what life is like now as a successful independent bookseller…

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Wednesday Wellbeing

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“We rise by lifting others.” ~ Robert Ingersoll

Happy Wednesday!

Friday is fast approaching but if you’re feeling the midweek blues you’re in the right place to be inspired!

Last week we mentioned that for the next couple of weeks a member of the Do What You Love team will be sharing what they’re up to and what is motivating them at the moment. We hope their thoughts get you thinking about what lights you up and how you can make get more of this into your life.

Today Paul Kempton talks about doing something that makes a difference…

Here at DWYL we are always very conscious and determined that our content and courses are current and oozing with quality. Put simply they are as good as we can make them.

This month we opened the classroom for the tenth Do What You Love e-course. Although the course has been running for five years now the quality of the exercises and format continue to push our participants completely out of their comfort zones.

We are just entering Week 4 and already some very powerful issues have been addressed. A few of the topics discussed are below:

  • The importance of honesty. This might sound very obvious but we bury our greatest feelings deep, deep down because we are afraid, we don’t want to be ridiculed, we’re searching for acceptance, we fear other people’s judgments, etc…
  • The power of saying something out loud or putting it out there. This takes courage but it is only then we realise its importance.
  • Where can we find the courage and bravery required to make changes
  • The importance of communication.

When doing something so personal it is important to have a safe haven where you feel comfortable sharing your feelings and findings. Aside from your personal journal, this course in particular has a powerful and understanding community. The hundreds of people from across the globe who joined us this time round are an amazing group of people – who all want to spend more time doing what they love – and I have no doubt their strength in numbers will serve them very well in the weeks and months to come.

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My thought of the week: It took me years of coasting through life, of lacking courage to make big changes, to find my true path. So our work here fills me with great pride ands joy. We are a small, friendly and dynamic team who juggle everything that life throws at us and are ultimately working harder than ever. Why? Because we truly believe the world will be a better place if more people are ‘Doing What They Love’. I cannot think of a better reason to wake up every morning.

What’s inspiring and motivating you this Wednesday? We’d love to know.

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The cost of opportunity

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How are you experiencing the change of the seasons? Everyone seems to be going down with something – I hope you are staying well and enjoying the best that the seasonal shift has to offer.

Over here November has, as always, brought thoughts of clearing out the old and planning for the new. I spent most of Sunday setting up and running a stall at a nearly new baby stuff sale. It wasn’t quite what I expected.

Well the event itself was pretty much as I expected – lots of new parents and pregnant women jostling for bargains, and lots of other parents standing behind piles of clothes and toys.

But what I took away from the event was not what I expected at all. I expected to come away with a fair bit of cash, feeling good about passing on my children’s outgrown items to others, and inspired by all the mothers (and a few fathers) being enterprising with their Sunday afternoon. But actually I came away with about £50 (around $60) after expenses, and a niggling feeling that we too often misjudge (or don’t consider) the opportunity cost of the things we commit to, and I had done just that.

Let me rewind…

I love a good enterprise scheme. As a child I used to sell cakes out the front of my house to passing football supporters. One time I even dressed up as a little match girl, and walked around in Victorian costume selling matches to grown ups. So I was actually looking forward to having my own little shop at the baby fair. I did my research, and found out that people seemed to have the most success when small items when babygros etc were packaged up and labelled by size, and the stall had good signage. So, you guessed it, I spent few hours sorting all the bags of clothes in our attic, going through every drawer and cupboard in the house, followed by a couple of evenings surrounded by tiny clothes, sandwich bags, sticky labels and coloured pens.

Part of me loved doing this. But it was a slow process, because Mr K and I would keep holding up favourite cute outfits and reminisce about where our girls were, or what they were doing, when we last saw them wearing each one.

Then the day of the sale came, and I spent most of the day packing everything up, taking it to the sale, running the stall and then packing up again. My strategy worked – my ‘3 for 2’ on packaged items went like a dream and clothes were flying off my sale table.

I actually had one of the busiest stalls there, but even so, after expenses I only made a total of £50, not counting the cost of the table I bought to put the stuff on, my mum’s time ironing all the dresses, or fuel for my dad’s van to get us there. Not to mention the fact that by the time I got home I was absolutely shattered.

And guess what? While I was selling my wares, Mr K was in town with the girls and picked up a parking ticket. So actually, after about three days’ work, I had earned just about enough to pay for the coffee I’m drinking as I type this, and reflect on the real lesson.

The sale was not a good use of my time. In an attempt to pull back some of the ‘sunk cost‘ of money spent on all those baby clothes in times gone by, and to generate some ‘free money’ to go towards Christmas, what I actually did was knacker myself out and sacrifice precious family time.

It struck me how often we do this, especially when starting out with a creative venture. I think with most passions, there comes a point when we feel obliged to make some money out of it, in order to justify the time we are spending. And so we create a micro-venture, don’t really do the numbers, and end up investing a huge amount of time and energy into something that doesn’t really reap the reward we were expecting.

Of course, if it works, it’s wonderful, and this ‘trial’ micro-venture can become the seed of a valid long term business. But too often we deny the real ‘cost‘ of the ‘opportunity‘ at hand, and keep on pushing when actually we would be better of earning money elsewhere, and just relaxing into our passions without a concern for the financial return.

In my case, because the baby sale was outside of work and childcare and I did it mostly alone, it seemed to count as ‘me time’ when actually it felt very far from ‘me time’, and instead of being rejuvenating, was actually exhausting. I would have been better off spending an hour going through my bank account to find somewhere I could save £50, then spend a lovely weekend with my family, or doing something else I love, purely for fun. Please note: This is not me disapproving of second hand sales – if they work for you then go for it! Just be sure you are being honest about the real cost.

This week I challenge you to look at how you are spending your precious time and ask yourself whether you are being honest with yourself about the opportunity cost.

With each project, ask yourself what else you could be doing if you weren’t doing that. And map out the real time and money it is costing you, to see if that really is the best use of your resources. You might be surprised by the result!

When I did this, the decision was a no-brainer. All the leftover clothes went straight to charity and I’m planning to spend the whole of next weekend with my little family. What might you end up doing differently?

Have a good week!

Beth x

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Great escape: What’s going on?

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With 2017 on horizon, now is the perfect time to invest in yourself. Whether it’s learning a new skill, developing yourself personally or professionally, tapping into your creativity, hiring a coach, or taking a break before the Christmas festivities start, making time for yourself is a powerful thing to do.

Nurturing yourself and your dreams sends a strong message into the world: I’m listening to the voice of my soul. I’m willing to give myself the time, energy, and space I need to develop and grow. I want to be the best possible version of myself.

When you say yes to exciting new opportunities, doors start to open as if by magic. Just try it and see!

Whether your inner voice is calling you to start that business, take up yoga, write a book, or do a digital detox, here’s our pick of the best upcoming festivals, retreats, and events across the globe to take you a step closer to your dreams.

A BIT ON THE SIDE: START A BUSINESS AND KEEP YOUR JOB

When: TONIGHT! November 7, 2016 @ 6.30pm – 9.30pm

Where: Frederick’s Place, London, UK

Cost: £60

Organiser: Escape The City

More info & to book: https://blog.escapethecity.org/event/a-bit-on-the-side-start-a-business-and-keep-your-job-3/

Are you sitting on a business idea but don’t have the time, money or resources to start it? Are you curious about the new world of startups and freelance careers? You’re not alone in wanting to branch out and create something on your own. This workshop will give you tools, tricks and inspiration from those that have set up businesses whilst remaining in employment. It’s ideal for: anyone who wants to learn what small steps can help them to explore their business idea alongside their day job; community lovers who want to build a network; advice hunters and doers who want practical tips to help them get started. You’ll hear from people that have done it – both those that have transitioned into their startup full-time, and those still in full-time employment but running a business on the side. Most excitingly – you’ll get started on your business, right in the room, surrounded and encouraged by your fellow attendees!

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THE WRITER’S WORKSHOP 2016 

When: November 19 – 20, 2016

Where: The Royal College of Surgeons of England, London, UK

Price: £279

Organiser: Hay House Publishing

More info & to book: https://www.hayhouse.co.uk/lectures-events/writers-workshop-london-2016

Are you a writer with a great book idea and a strong desire to be published? Do you just need the inside scoop on how to perfect and publish your book? Then this is the workshop for you! This is your chance to publish a book with Hay House UK and become a bestselling author – one participant will be awarded a publishing contract with Hay House and a £5,000 advance! Join this special two-day workshop with some of Hay House’s finest speakers and authors – many of whom have firsthand knowledge of creating and writing bestselling books. Learn from Michelle Pilley, the Publisher and Managing Director of Hay House UK. She will offer key advice learned from her 30 years of successful publishing experience and expert knowledge of how to nail a publishing deal.

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THE HAPPY START UP SCHOOL CANVAS

When: November 22, 2016 @ 5pm – 7.30pm

Where: Wagner Hall, Brighton, UK

Price: £22 (+ £2.07 booking fee)

Organiser: Brighton & Hove Social Enterprise Network in partnership with The Happy Startup School

More info & to book: https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/startup-the-happy-startup-canvas-tickets-26284104464 

This inspiring workshop will help you to clarify if your idea is a social enterprise and support you, as budding social entrepreneur, to go from idea to action fast, and learn techniques for validating your idea with customers without the need for big budgets. It will give you the knowledge and tools to help you to tap into the growing trends that will affect how your business operates and start to bake happiness into your DNA.

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DIGITAL DETOX WEEKEND

When: December 8 – 11, 2016

Where: Finland

Cost: £1,159

Organiser: The Flash Pack

More info & to book: https://flashpack.com/adventure-trips/finland-digital-detox/

If you’d love to swap your mobile for a snowmobile and indulge yourself with a short and energising recharge ahead of the Christmas festivities, this digital detox weekend in Finland delivers. Designed for solo travellers or small groups of friends, it a chance to unwind by immersing yourself in Finnish culture, cuisine and adventure. For four days you can switch off from modern life and sink into the wonderful Finnish snowscape. Go trekking, skiing, husky sledding, ride a reindeer sleigh, relax in the sauna and spend evenings watching the Northern Lights or warming yourself by the fire in a cosy inn straight out of a Christmas card.

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OSHO WINTER FESTIVAL: LIVING FROM THE HEART

When: December 8 – 11, 2016

Where: Osho Leela, Dorset, UK 

Cost: from £129

Organiser: Osho Leela Community 

More info & to book: https://osholeela.uk/events/osho-winter-festival-2016/

Dive deep into the roots of your being and fly high on the wings of love and connection. This festival will warm your heart, heal you from the inside and expand your vision. It is a fun and nourishing celebration in beautiful countryside setting – perfect for winter rambles. Innovative and playful workshops include things like Shiatsu, singing, tantra, art, Biodanza, ageless vitality, discovering your inner child, self-enquiry and comedy. There’s also a full meditation programme including satsang with live music from band Satvaa, evening meetings, dance and live performances followed by an Osho video discourse.

THE INSTANT PAUSE

When: January 14, 2017

Where: Berlin, Germany

Cost: £140

Organiser: Life by Danielle

More info & to book: https://www.lifebydanielle.com/retreats/instant-pause/

In this one-day workshop, led by Nicola Moss, you’ll get time and space to think about you and your life and bring yourself back into balance. The Instant Pause workshop helps you look back to move forwards. You may be at a point of transition in your life; considering where to go next in your career, feeling burnt out from corporate life, or you may run your own business and are in need of some time and space to ensure you’re focusing on the right things. Your focus might be personal – life may be nudging you right now to stop and take a pause. Whether personal or career, this day away will create space for you to slow down, reflect and focus on what’s important.

WANDERLUST GREAT LAKE TAUPO

When: February 2-5, 2017

Where: Wairakei Geothermal Valley, Great Lake Taupo, New Zealand

Cost: $70 to $480

Organiser: Wanderlust

More info & to book: https://www.wanderlust.com

Unplug from the ordinary. Adventure awaits. Wanderlust Great Lake Taupo is an all-out celebration of mindful living. Bringing together a remarkable group of yoga and meditation instructors, musical performers, speakers, artists and chefs for a transformational retreat this is an experience that will get into your mind, body and soul. Regardless of what starts you on your path, Wanderlust is an experience that will leave you different than when you came – with new ideas, new friends, newly-discovered abilities, and greater peace. Find your true north.

ENVISION

When: February 23 – 26, 2017

Where: Uvita, Costa Rica

Cost: $298.00

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More info & to book: https://www.envisionfestival.com

Want to venture to new lands of self-discovery? This festival has one of the biggest line up lists, and a mixed bag of eco, spiritual, yoga and development courses and classes on its menu. A celebration dedicated to awakening our human potential, Envision provides a platform for different cultures to co-exist in sustainable community, and inspire one another through art, spirituality, yoga, music, dance, performance, education, sustainability and acknowledge our fundamental connection with nature. Definitely worthy of a trip!

BALI SPIRIT FESTIVAL

When: Mar 19 – Mar 26, 2017

Where: Ubud, Bali

Cost: Early Bird full pass: $575 until February 1, 2017

Organiser: Co-Founders Megan Pappenheim, Kadek Gunarta, and Robert Weber

More info & to book: https://balispiritfestival.com

Seated in the spot of Elizabeth’s Gilbert reinvention from Eat, Pray, Love, the Bali Spirit Festival is an energy-charged event that will be sure to spark your soul. From music, yoga, health and wellbeing to eco and social change it has all the elements you need to learn, grow and develop a holistic lifestyle. You’ll spend the days on lush terraced lawns with open pavilions, and at night the party moves to an outdoor stage for a world music concert like no other on Earth.

Disclaimer: We are not affiliates of or involved in the running of any of the suggested events. Please contact the organisers directly with any questions or queries.

Do What You Love interview – Will Bruton

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Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover. ~ Mark Twain

Today we chat to a man who swapped a career in UK politics for a life on the ocean wave.

Will Bruton is a freelance captain who specializes in running beautiful cruising yachts and organising sailing charters all over the world. In his free time, as well as exploring the many beautiful places he visits, Will provides political insight to the marine sector and dabbles in journalism as a regular contributor to Yachting Monthly and Sailing Today magazines.

Will has just moved to Japan where he is immersing himself in the culture, building his own location independent travel businesses and teaching English. It’s been a pleasure to speak to him and find out how he’s consciously, and continuously, steering his life in the direction of his dreams.  ~ Rachel

Will Bruton profile

1. Tell us a bit about your background…

I was born in London, but I grew up in rural Lancashire, both about as far from the sea as you can get. At school I struggled to apply myself. Fortunately, I went to a school where I was allowed (perhaps too much!) freedom to pursue constructive interests outside the classroom. Education is fundamental, in the broadest sense.

After my GCSEs I did some parachute jumps on a course run by the British Army. An opportunity available then to school leavers, but one that most had never heard of. A skydiving course in Spain followed the next summer. I met a few people that were living a legitimate long-term existence, whilst doing what they really wanted. That’s when I realised you could put something like ‘skydiver’ on your tax return. One guy I learned to skydive with, Sam Hardy, has gone on to be a professional BASE jumper. I look on in awe.

I was quite straightforward in my ambitions though for the next few years. Sandhurst and a commission in the Army was the plan until towards the end of university. I spent three months in Canada attached to a regular regiment. A brilliant experience riding around in the turret of a tank, but one that made me realise I wasn’t great in such a hierarchical organisation. I envy the relationships people in the army build though. Freelancing has some lonely moments.

I studied Politics at university. Whilst I had no ambitions in that direction career wise, the subject interested me. The humanities have taken a real hammering in recent years. We’re all supposed to be producing a reason for our existence in the system. Tangible proof of why we study a subject and an end goal.

I spent a year working in Westminster for one of the House of Common’s more colourful characters between my second and third years. It was an election year and proved particularly interesting. I saw my boss lose his job and mine in the process. Working in Westminster was a real privilege. There’s an electric atmosphere there when something big is happening.

Last year, in one of travel’s bizarre coincidences, I ran into Lembit Opik (my old boss) at Marrakech airport. I was there to run the half-marathon. We found an afternoon to catch up. The main topic of conversation was the madness of politics and the joys of self-employment.

2. What was the catalyst for changing careers? Why sailing?

Whilst looking for countless lobbying jobs I didn’t really want to do, I launched my own lobbying start-up, appropriately called Black Sheep. I’d built up a knowledge of some legislation whilst working at Westminster, so I wrote to the companies concerned by it and made a business out of trying to change it for them.

Lobbying has always been seen as some kind of dark art. In truth it’s about articulating an argument effectively. That business was all about capitalising on specialist knowledge to build a few very strong bridges. I didn’t have the manpower to write to every politician. It all gets put in the bin by the researcher anyway. I know, because I was one. I focussed on identifying a few natural advocates that didn’t need their arms twisting. There’s still great scope for that model of lobbying. However, I was in a suit too much, and my heart wasn’t in it for the long run.

It struck me sailing would be a great way to work and travel. A mechanism to the kind of slow travel I knew I most enjoyed. A gap-year in the traditional sense has never really appealed.

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3. What does training to become a skipper involve?

To earn money as skipper of a small yacht, the bare minimum is really a Yachtmaster certificate these days. You need to spend a lot of time on the water and have a solid grasp of sailing. How to manage crew is a big part of the job. As you move up it’s about managing an expensive asset and all that goes with it.

I took an intensive ‘CELTA’ sailing course on the south coast. I used to keep quiet about it because the old sailing guard seem to hate the idea that you can learn to sail in a few months. In reality, if you’re sailing every day in crap weather, you learn a lot more than someone sailing at the weekends in good weather for fun. I finished the course with a very cautious approach.

4. What was your first job after qualifying?

I was very conscious my qualifications needed bolstering with more experience, so I signed up with all the yacht delivery companies to help deliver boats. To begin with, for expenses only. That was tough, but a brilliant learning curve. After quite a few deliveries I got a summer job as a skipper for the now ubiquitous Yacht Week in Croatia. I learned a lot and the sailing in Croatia is fantastic.

5. What does your work involve these days? And how has your business as a freelancer grown and evolved?

My business comprises several things that dovetail reasonably with each other. All involve travel.

I have got to the stage with the sailing where I can comfortably freelance. That provides the most reliable income stream. However, it’s also the most professionalised work I do. There are some qualifications I have to keep in date and without experience I would quickly get rusty anyway. I take on interesting yacht deliveries, charters, and some short term projects for yacht owners. It’s great to get on a boat and apply myself to something so different for a couple of weeks.

In parallel, I’ve worked very hard at getting my writing published, which is finally starting to pay off. Fundamentally, I pitch to editors about what I want to write about- so my enthusiasm doesn’t really wane. To begin with I set myself a target of getting in the major yachting titles. I’m now doing more travel writing as well, with a focus on how a yacht is a mechanism to fulfilling travel.

Finally, I am starting to build a travel company. It’s a long term project with no public face as yet. Fundamentally, it’s about fulfilling travel fueled by deep local insight. Unparalleled experiences and immersion in a place.

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6. You specialise in sailing Oyster Yachts. What is it about them that captured your heart and where has life onboard them taken you?

Oysters are built in the UK, and whilst they are beautiful yachts, they are also built to cruise long distances. That in itself is a mechanism to meet interesting owners game for big adventures. Thirty-two Oysters are setting off on a circumnavigation together next year – I am hoping to join a couple I used to work for for a leg of the The Pacific. It’s also great to sail a British built yacht. It’s like a Bentley before people started painting them orange. A bit of an understated magic carpet.

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7. What kind of clients do you work for?

All sorts. On charter, you’re essentially working for holiday guests who’ve hired the boat. When you’re sailing for the owner, it’s a little different. You also build a relationship you wouldn’t on a motor yacht. It’s first name terms in many cases.

One guy I worked for was a former bank chairman. Really not what I expected. On one charter I had two former professional football players, a journalist just off the plane from Syria, and a ski guide. It does vary enormously.

8. What have you been doing over the summer? Talk us through a typical day…

This summer I have been getting ready to move to Japan… so it’s been a bit different.

I spent a month taking a CETLA English teaching certificate, before getting some practice teaching at a language school in Brighton. Whilst I’ve no plans to teach for a living, I’ve set up a micro-business providing English language training to people in the marine industry trying to pass maritime exam papers set in English. Very niche. In Japan I’m going to teach couple of evenings a week to get me off of my laptop and meet some locals. I like learning new things.

Just before leaving Europe I sailed on a yacht to the UK from Palma as the First Mate, or Second in Command. It was great to not have all the responsibility of being skipper to be honest, particularly as the skipper had sailed round the world twice, so there was lots to talk about.

A conventional day on a long trip like that is a bit unusual. We work in shifts or watches, usually three hours on, then six hours off. A lot of keeping a yacht safe is pre-empting things that could go wrong, so we are constantly checking everything. A lot of time is spent trying to adjust the sails to make her go as fast as possible… eight miles an hour if we’re lucky!

On this trip we saw whales, dolphins and basking sharks in the Bay of Biscay. There were some spectacular sunsets and sunrises – fantastic time to think, take stock, and come up with the next plan. It’s a totally different rhythm.

On charter the pace is pretty mad and the days are very long. A great charter is a swan, effortless above the waterline, the crew frenetically paddling below. Two weeks is ideal as most guests with busy lifestyles take the first week to relax properly. The key is to have a loose plan that goes with what the wind wants to do, not that all guests come equipped with a capacity for loose planning!

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9. Life on the sea must be liberating, exhilarating, and at times, challenging. What big life lessons have you learnt along your journey to doing what you love?

Sailing lends unparalleled perspective on life. Ocean sailing in particular. The challenges and rewards are big. There are a lot of parallels with entrepreneurship and both are ultimately exercises in self-reliance.

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There’s an old expression gentlemen don’t sail to windward, which essentially means they don’t go against the natural forces acting against them, but there’s more to it than first appears. It’s not about giving up, it’s about working with what you’ve got. You can zig-zag into the wind and tide to get to your ultimate destination, but it’s pretty miserable. When one idea I am pursuing starts to stagnate, or I get writers block, I quickly change tack onto something else. It’s about making efficient gains in the long run. When there’s no wind sometimes I’ll just let the boat drift for a couple of hours. Have a swim!

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10. You love writing; how are you pursuing your passion for journalism and what have been your biggest ‘proud ofs’ to date?

I’ve just written a piece for Yachting World, a magazine I never imagined being published in and really the leading voice in yachting. I wrote to the editor last year. To my great surprise, she invited me to Time Inc’s gargantuan office on the Southbank. That she took the time out to meet me for a coffee and give me her two cents on how to get into magazines meant the world at a time when I felt I was banging my head against a brick wall. Rejection is par for the course and you have to just keep submitting copy you believe in.

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Norah Ephron was a journalist, director and all round larger than life Hollywood character. Her son made a film about her recently. Her mantra ‘Everything Is Copy’ was the title. It kind of sums up the feeling of being compelled to write. Every nuance of life has the potential to be a good piece of writing. I’m quite self-conscious about what I put out there, but I do it anyway.

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11. You’ve just moved out to Japan. What are you doing over there?

Japan has always been somewhere I have wanted to live for a while. My partner has just finished a Japanese degree, so the stars have aligned somewhat. I’m going to write a lot, do some sailing, and immerse myself in the country. I’m now about 70 per cent location independent, so being based here is fine.

The yachting market is expanding apace in Asia as well so I have trips planned to Singapore and Hong Kong.

12. What does the future hold for you? What’s the ultimate dream?

To carry on building location independent businesses conducive to long-term travel. In particular, slow travel. Immersing myself in countries and taking unusual routes between them is what I find most fulfilling.

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I’ve travelled at the sharp end of the plane and realised you’re still in a tube at 40,000ft breathing the same recycled air. I’ll happily take two weeks to sail from Southern Spain to the UK though. Dipping a toe into places has always been crap, you’ve got to get amongst it to really understand it.

The ultimate dream? I’m not sure. Perhaps sail, fly, and drive myself around the world?!

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13. Who is your biggest inspiration?

Difficult to say, but despite being clichéd, I’d say Richard Branson. He is proof you can create business, break records, and have enormous fun. He also works very hard, that’s the old fashioned bit cynics tend to forget. I’ve seen him kitesurfing early in the morning off Necker a couple of times.

14. What advice would you give anyone who isn’t doing what they love?

At the crux of it is how people think about work. You don’t have to 9-5 anymore. I’m in Japan now. The friend we’re staying with has recently ditched his salaryman job for flexible hours. He’s working from home with his two-year-old on his lap. If it’s possible to confront the status quo here, a lot more is possible in the west. Sideline businesses people do outside a regular job are often some of the most interesting.

15. Finally, is there a quote you try and live by?

Don’t grow up. It’s a trap.

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To read more about Will’s extraordinary experiences visit his website. You can also contact him by email [email protected] or follow him on Twitter @WillBruton

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Wednesday Wellbeing

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“May the space between where I am and where I want to be inspire me.” ~ Tracee Ellis Ross

Yes… it’s that time of the week again – Happy Wednesday!

Friday is fast approaching but if you’re feeling the midweek blues you’re in the right place to be inspired!

Every Wednesday for the next few weeks, a member of the Do What You Love team will be sharing what they’re up to and what is motivating them at the moment. We hope their thoughts get you thinking about what lights you up and how you can make get more of this into your life…

Today founder Beth Kempton talks about making dreams happen…

I have just got back from the USA where I spoke at ‘I Am… Courage – New York City’. I shared the stage with five amazing women who lit up the room with their tales of brave and truthful living.

The six of us actually created that event from nothing – we met at a workshop several months before and decided we had a common message, which we wanted to spread widely. When the event was over, and we had been showered with incredible feedback from the audience, we went to dinner and just sat there looking at each other, grinning. In that moment we realised that we just made something awesome happen, simply by committing to it, setting a date, and then doing the work needed to pull it off. And then we all showed up and spoke honestly and openly, and it resonated deeply with those in attendance.

It taught me that we don’t need other people’s permission to do amazing things. We can make them happen ourselves, especially when we have the support of others like us, committed to a common goal.

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My thought of the week: When you’re stuck in a mid-week slump, remind yourself that you have all the power you need to lift yourself out. You just need to commit, and then follow through. You are the owner of your dreams and you can make them real!